"UGHHH!! Get outta here!"
You are a sniveling, complaining, judgmental whiny, negative Nancy, bitter Shleprock, and we can't deal with your bad air anymore!!
At the beginning of each year, most people join exercise programs, start new diets and explore avenues of self-help. Its a time of restoration and a sense of new beginnings.
IF IT IS JANUARY ANYth AND YOU ARE DRAGGING YOUR BUTT AROUND, COMPLAINING, SAGGING YOUR JAWS DOWN, FROWNING AND B$&%ING TO ANYONE THAT WILL HEAR YOU, PUTTING ON FAKE SMILES AND JUDGING OTHERS, GOSSIPING .....LISTEN....Nobody has time for that!!! Imagine what the rest of your year will look like honey?
The effort that it takes to stay optimistic and to commit to being in a peaceful and abundant state of mind is priceless. It takes discipline and determination and a certain Je ne sais quoi to keep your head above water. The last thing you need when you've decided to take that journey is a person in your circle or your personal space, spewing venom, subliminal resentment or spilling their self pity everywhere.
I'm not talking about people who have genuine problems that are difficult or have gone through trauma or hardship or emotional turmoil. We enjoy being there for our friends when life is hard on them.
I'm talking about people who spend so much time judging others, putting on a show, or feeling like the world owes them a favor because of their own self-proclaimed fabulousness, that they don't realize they are toxic themselves...until nobody wants to bother with them much anymore. (And even then they think its everyone else. - No one is jealous of you, ....its you! Your attitude and your mindset suck!)
There is also much to be said for those that are not genuine. Just because you are pleasant, does not mean you are nice. The false exterior can be so transparent! Examine your thoughts, and the mind you are in when you speak to others or about their situations. If you are ugly on the inside, no amount of fake will prevent others from "feeling your vibes" ...people are more intuitive than you think.
Girl...you are grown.....get your self together!